Session No.17 Report
Session Date : 1387/03/10
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participating people in alphabet mode
botanist
Gohar_Mech
حس غریب
رو به آسمان
هوای دوست
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Roo Be Aseman(05:59:48 ): session number 17
Roo Be Aseman(06:00:05 ): has ever a friend let you down?
Roo Be Aseman(06:00:21 ): who wants to start first?
Botanist(06:01:46 ): In the name of allah
Botanist(06:02:16 ): I think having like this friends to some extent is usual !
Botanist(06:02:45 ): I have been agiants to such friends in different situations....
Botanist(06:03:03 ): But almost is related to education competitions.
Botanist(06:03:46 ): Competition in this regard is so good but if we do somethings that is not be pleasure…. even for us ……we will damage to our friends !!!!
Botanist(06:04:26 ): In this situation I should be awar from his/her performance and then…..I try to disconnect politely!!!!!
Botanist(06:04:36 ): It is the best way for relief …..
Botanist(06:04:44 ): over!
Hese Gharib(06:04:50 ): is not be pleasure....u meant????
Hese Gharib(06:05:12 ): also...<damage our friends> no prep is needed
Hese Gharib(06:06:11 ): here: TO
Hese Gharib(06:06:45 ): preposition i meant....
Botanist(06:06:48 ): thanks
Roo Be Aseman(06:06:52 ): you mentioned a significant aspect in our life
Hese Gharib(06:07:01 ): thanks dear manager...
Roo Be Aseman(06:07:18 ): that is to say COMPETITION
Roo Be Aseman(06:07:55 ): i think it is necessary to have a health competition
Botanist(06:07:55 ): yes
Roo Be Aseman(06:08:23 ): as psycologists say
Hese Gharib(06:08:29 ): positive competiition
Roo Be Aseman(06:08:52 ): thanks dear
Botanist(06:08:59 ): actually u are right
Roo Be Aseman(06:09:08 ): it is better to comete with youself
Roo Be Aseman(06:09:35 ): as our saint imam Ali says
Roo Be Aseman(06:10:07 ): do in way that your today become better than yesterday in a way
Roo Be Aseman(06:10:40 ): is there any idea about this
Hese Gharib(06:11:14 ): u meant the wise saying?
Roo Be Aseman(06:11:35 ): would you please explain more?
Hese Gharib(06:12:07 ): u said any idea about this...and i asked this here means the HADIS u told?
Roo Be Aseman(06:12:17 ): yes
Hese Gharib(06:12:46 ): right.......we all know that islam always encourage us to improve our lives
Hese Gharib(06:13:25 ): but to gether not against eachother
Hese Gharib(06:13:54 ): besides.....it means helping each other to achieve goals.
Roo Be Aseman(06:14:17 ): yes exactly
Hese Gharib(06:14:43 ): when u compete with others ....usually the person is filled with
Hese Gharib(06:14:55 ): senses that result from jelousy
Hese Gharib(06:15:03 ): over
Roo Be Aseman(06:15:31 ): is there anybody to continue the topic
Gohar(06:16:47 ): faithful people don"t envy unless in achieving knowledge
Hese Gharib(06:17:07 ): that is acceptable of course
Gohar(06:18:16 ): and in the other hand greed degrades the person
Roo Be Aseman(06:18:44 ): but how?
Roo Be Aseman(06:19:44 ): what do you mean with degrades?
Gohar(06:20:11 ): fail
Gohar(06:20:50 ): when someone is so jelous about every matter he is degraded
Hese Gharib(06:21:06 ): Thanks, but no thanks.
Botanist(06:21:20 ): yes absolutely
Gohar(06:24:02 ): but in a healthy way every one has a enemy and others envy others diminsh his efforts and don"t like to see him an a good situations
Roo Be Aseman(06:25:10 ): yes a few people are so
Gohar(06:25:32 ): exactly but not for all times
Gohar(06:25:53 ): in the time of saint imam ALI
Gohar(06:26:17 ): many people were in this state
Gohar(06:26:32 ): and all of times we have
Gohar(06:27:19 ): in the last verse of holy qoran GOD mentions to this fact
Gohar(06:28:01 ): can i tell a story of this about myself?
Roo Be Aseman(06:28:25 ): please dear we are eager to hear
Gohar(06:29:08 ): I worked in a company last year when i wanted to finish my university
Gohar(06:29:37 ): in there I launch a new way for doing their works
Gohar(06:30:30 ): for this innovation they didn"t need to spend a lot of times in writing translations and so more
Gohar(06:31:24 ): but after one week I saw some engineers diminished my effort
Gohar(06:31:48 ): I WAS YOUNGER MAN THERE
Gohar(06:32:35 ): any way I coildn"t stay there
Gohar(06:33:29 ): but for preventing this I have some soloutions that i prefer to hear your words and after that say them
Gohar(06:33:34 ): over
Hese Gharib(06:33:41 ): <the youngest>
Roo Be Aseman(06:34:43 ): dear j can you tell your idea abut the topic
Havaie Doost(06:36:31 ): So i going on ... thanks
Hese Gharib(06:36:55 ): <i will go on/i go on>
Hese Gharib(06:38:05 ): u see...ing is used mostly by to be verbs
Havaie Doost(06:38:46 ): In the name of God
Havaie Doost(06:39:05 ): As you know we have a says that "Good friend is someone prevents you from bad situation"
Havaie Doost(06:39:44 ): Actually when someone called Good freind he/she has this imporatnt factor .
Roo Be Aseman(06:39:58 ): <a saying > -< prevents>
Havaie Doost(06:40:48 ): In this way everyone maybe lead to everykind of bad situation like problems even you dear freinds
Havaie Doost(06:41:59 ): How much time did you have a great problem that you reaquest help from your friends ?
Gohar(06:42:54 ): I did one time
Havaie Doost(06:43:23 ): Sometimes that"s it reasons that friendship maybe hadbroken had broken
some words)
Havaie Doost(06:45:57 ): So in other hand when i have a problemfirst i try to solve it myself
Roo Be Aseman(06:46:15 ): sorry interuption with me
Roo Be Aseman(06:46:47 ): interruption
Havaie Doost(06:47:00 ): your welcome dear manager
Roo Be Aseman(06:47:12 ): there is just 15 minutes to end and we are 5
Roo Be Aseman(06:47:35 ): everybody will say his solution in 3 minutes
Roo Be Aseman(06:48:17 ): the solution of when sb let you down
Hese Gharib(06:48:43 ): as the prevention is better than cure!!!........decrease ur expectation from others...specially ur friends....
Roo Be Aseman(06:51:22 ): at first i wanna start
Botanist(06:51:50 ): but how we can?
Hese Gharib(06:52:04 ): <how can we>
Botanist(06:52:13 ): yeah!
Botanist(06:52:19 ): thanks
Roo Be Aseman(06:52:29 ): as dear gohar said in our whole life we will face with such people
Roo Be Aseman(06:53:36 ): but the most important thing is that how we will tackle at this problem
Roo Be Aseman(06:54:53 ): but the most important thing is that how we will tackle at this problem
Roo Be Aseman(06:55:46 ): in my opinion we have to respect other peoples ideas but we shouldn"t accept all of them
Roo Be Aseman(06:59:55 ): we have to know our friends
Roo Be Aseman(07:00:09 ): we have to examine them
Roo Be Aseman(07:00:21 ): so as to know them
Botanist(07:00:21 ): yeah but as u know we can know our friends in this situations
\· Botanist(07:01:02 ): and then we can realize to their personality
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