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تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

يکشنبه 10/6/1387 - 14:7 - 0 تشکر 54770

“If you associate with turkeys, you will never fly with theeagles.”-Brian Tracy
Who you surround yourself with will determine how far you go.
Tanha after I decided to start my own business, decisionmaking became pretty simple for me. I knew that every action Itook in the next four years was either going to get me closer tomy goal or pull me away from my goal.
Everything I did would make a difference. Even the people Iassociated with...
There are two kinds of people in the world. They are either onyour team or they are not in your team. They are either on yourdream team or they are not. People will push you up, or theypull you down. If they doubt you can do it, they could stealyour dream away!
Associating with negative people makes us think negatively, Icall these people “TOXIC PEOPLE.” Close contact with toxicindividuals develops toxic habits in us. On the other hand, arelationship with people with big ideas raises the level of ourthinking; close contact with ambitious people helps make us moreambitious.
Tanha Do you know Hernan Cortez? The Conqueror of "In the spring of 1519 a Spanish fleet set sailCortez told his sailors this mission must not failOn the eastern shore of they landed with great dreamsBut the hardships of the new world made them restless and weakQuietly they whispered, "Let’s sail back to the life we knew"But the one who led them there was saying:Burn the ships, we’re here to stayThere’s no way we could go backNow that we’ve come this far by faithBurn the ships, we’ve passed the point of no returnOur life is hereSo let the ships burn…"
This can also be applied to your life. To move forward in yourlife, you have to let go of everything that is holding you back,in this case you have to “BURN THE SHIPS” you don’t want to goback. You are here to stay and to move forward in life.
Do as Hernan Cortez and conquer new worlds, and new frontiers.
I want to see you Succeed Tanha.
For the best in YOU

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

يکشنبه 10/6/1387 - 20:21 - 0 تشکر 54872

سلام

حس غریب عزیز خوش آمد می گم بهتون 

امیدوارم همیشه موفق باشید

در مورد تاپیک قبلی که می فرمایید قبلاً ادغام شده و الان اون مطالب در تاپیک زیر قرار دارند

-:-The time is ripe for Reading-:-

 تا بعد

 
يکشنبه 24/6/1387 - 22:27 - 0 تشکر 57800

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از اونجایی که این مقالات هم کاربردی هستند و هم موضوعاتی مشابه  و منسجم دارند...اجازه بدید ادامه ی مباحث رو بذارم و به همه توصیه میکنم از این مقالات استفاده کنند.

How do you stop procrastination Tanha?

This is one of the worst habits a person can have.

Procrastination is the killer of all your dreams and goals.

You might say “Jorge, I’m not a procrastinator.”

Well, the truth is, just about everyone procrastinates.

Sometimes that is good, but mostly it’s a virus that will cripple

your future.

The word itself comes from the Latin word procrastinatus: pro-forward) and crastinus (of tomorrow). The term is first knownappearance was in the 17th century, during a sermon by a Reverend Anthony Walker on procrastination. The sermonreflected procrastination"s connection at the time to taskavoidance or delay, volition or will, and sin.

Now, the question is if all procrastination is BAD?

Successful people do procrastinate too, but they know when and

how. You have to take a break once in a while, but you have to

know for how long and make sure it does not interfere with your

productivity.

Schedule some time to procrastinate. It will help you set a time

for that activity and then you can easily come back to your

regular activities.

Now think how much money does procrastination had cost you in

your life? (Scary thought)

Well today is the day you will take some action.

First, whenever you feel the urge of procrastinating, think to

yourself.

“If I stop what I’m doing right now, How far behind on my

productivity would I be?”

“If I finish my work right now, and then I take a break, what

would be the reward?”

If you choose the second choice you can be sure that you will

have more time to relax.

You will not have to experience any stress, and you will not

have to run out of time by trying to finish at the last minute.

Start today, don’t wait.

Achieve the SUCCESS you deserve NOW.

For your Success,

Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

Success Coach

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

جمعه 29/6/1387 - 17:9 - 0 تشکر 58950

Tanha,

Reaching your goals is very important, but I want to tell you

that what you get by reaching your goals, is not as important as

what you become by reaching them.

Yes, I hear people all the time thinking that when they achieve

their goals, they are going to be more happy, be happy now,
because when you reach your goal, you are going to be a
different person.



You are going to be happier, more confident, and you are going

to learn how to grab the bull by the horns.

How much better would you be increasing your confidence?

You will face life in a different approach, right?

That’s exactly what I want you to accomplish

You are very special Tanha, and unique.

I know you can achieve whatever you want to achieve in life.




GO after your goals and dreams. You have a life full of
achievements and surprises ahead of you.

Today is the day you become more confident and are ready to
reach your goals.

DO IT NOW!!!

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

سه شنبه 9/7/1387 - 8:13 - 0 تشکر 61645

At least 20 a day Tanha
...‏

Tanha,

If you are not making at least 20 mistakes a day, you are not

trying to become successful hard enough.
Read that again.
You might think I’m crazy, but let me tell you Tanha,
mistakes is what makes us grow.

Learn from them, take the good positive stuff of the situation,

and learn from the lesson.

Rich and Successful people do make mistakes all of the time, but

they know that if they are not making mistakes, they are not
learning and growing.

You might try to avoid mistakes for fear of being uncomfortable.

That’s the thing that Successful people do BEST.

They are willing to be uncomfortable, they are comfortable at

being uncomfortable, that will allow them to have a big comfort

zone, and that’s why they take BIG risks.
If you don’t risk you won’t win.
Stop playing small. Doing that, you won’t allow yourself to
reach your potential.

I know you are very unique in every aspect, show the world who

you are and that you are proud of it, and if you make a mistake,

GREAT!! Learn from it, that will help you be the BEST you can

be.
Tanha you are special and unique, don’t destroy yourself
playing little, instead PLAY BIG, because you will WIN!!!
Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

دوشنبه 29/7/1387 - 23:28 - 0 تشکر 66482

Tanha,

 Let’s face it, who likes setting up goals?

Having to write them down, and have the discipline to follow
them.
It’s not easy, but no one said that Success was easy either.

All you need to do to be successful in any area of your life, is

to give more…
I know you might be thinking a 110% more right??
 Wrong.
Come on you know I’m here to give you the best information
possible, and best of all I’m here to put your mind at ease and
let you know that all you need to do is to give 1% more.
That’s right 1% more.
“Winners do everything they are supposed to and a little bit
more.”
-
Art Williams

You do have to stretch yourself and give that extra step, but

you do not have to reinvent the wheel and try to figure
everything out.
Don’t do that Tanha, that’s a big mistake.
Don’t figure things out, just DO IT.

Here is a little tip for you to make your goal setting process

fool proof.
Go and grab a piece of paper right now.
Hurry up, I’ll wait for you……

OK Good, Now write down one thing you want to accomplish in the

next 30 days.
Done, Great!!!
Now write down what you intent to do to get it done. Your
plan!!!
Fantastic!
Last but not least DO IT NOW!!!

Get started, what are you waiting for. Without action there is

no growth.
Tanha
I believe in you, You CAN DO IT!!!

Stop wondering what to do, just do it, you’ll figure it out in

the process.
Your Coach,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

جمعه 17/8/1387 - 20:13 - 0 تشکر 69416

One day I decided to quit.... I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality....

I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God. “God”, I said. “Can you give me one good reason not to quit?”

His answer surprised me...

“Look around”, He said. “Do you see the fern and the bamboo?”

Yes”, I replied.

“When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.

And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo”.

He said. “In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed.

“I would not quit."

He said. “Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 Feet tall.

It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.”

He said to me. “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. Don’t compare yourself to others.”

He said. “The bamboo had a different purpose than the Fern, yet, they both make the forest beautiful."

“Your time will come,” God said to me. “You will rise high!”

“How high should I rise?” I asked.

“How high will the bamboo rise?” He asked in return.

“As high as it can?” I questioned.

“Yes.” He said, “Give me glory by rising as high as you can.”

I left the forest and brought back this story. I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you........

 
يکشنبه 19/8/1387 - 23:24 - 0 تشکر 69774

Plateaus

One of the most important things to understand when you are working towards achieving an important goal is the concept of the plateau.

Many people expect there to be a direct relationship between the amount of effort they put into achieving their goal and the progress they make. This ideal situation is illustrated in the following diagram:

It would be nice if things worked like this, but in the real world, the relationship between effort and progress usually looks more like this:

When you start working towards achieving a goal you are usually very motivated and make good progress. However, if you"re like most people, after a while your initial enthusiasm wavers and although you continue to work hard, it begins to feel like you are getting nowhere. This feeling is a good indication that you have reached a plateau as shown in the above picture.

It is VERY important to understand how to approach this situation because most people who give up on their dream, do so when they are in the middle of a plateau. They become tired of working hard and making little progress, so they give up before achieving their objective.

Successful people on the other hand expect to encounter plateaus on the way to achieving their goal and they know that the secret to pushing through a plateau is to:

focus on the process rather than your progress.

Here"s an example that illustrates what I mean:

Ann"s dream was to write and self publish her own book. When she started writing she was very motivated and made great progress, but after a few weeks she began to feel as though she was getting nowhere and was very tempted to give up - She had reached a plateau.

In order to push through this plateau, Ann decided to focus on the process rather than her progress and committed herself to write for four hours a day come what may. After four weeks of this routine, Ann realised that she had completed the first draft of her first chapter and felt as though she suddenly jumped to a whole new level.

In the months that followed, Ann repeated this pattern of progress, plateau, progress until the incredible day when she finally held her printed book in her hand.

Today I"d like to encourage you to approach your goals with an awareness of the plateaus that you will encounter on your way to success. If you are currently in the middle of a plateau, make the decision to focus on the process rather than your progress and continue to push forward.

If you adopt this approach you will soon come to the end of your plateau and feel yourself make the leap to a new level of achievement. This in turn will give you the momentum and belief you need to overcome future plateaus until you reach that magical day when your dream becomes your reality.

Until next time,

Dare to Dream!

Anthony

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

دوشنبه 11/9/1387 - 11:12 - 0 تشکر 74516

Everything Happens for A Reason

Tanha

Would you like to enjoy more success and have less stress in your life? Do you wish that your daily aggravations had less power over you? Would you appreciate some peace of mind?


No, you don"t need to find a genie in a bottle to enjoy
these spectacular benefits. What you do need, however, is a belief in one key concept -- that everything happens for a reason.


When I began speaking before groups more than ten years ago, I often asked the members of my audience, "How many of you believe that everything happens for a reason?" Typically, about 25% of the people would raise their hands. Now, when I ask that same question, anywhere from 50% to 80% of the audience answers in the affirmative.


Whether you already believe that things happen for a
purpose, or are unsure about this notion, here are some
points to consider to get the maximum results from this
principle:


1. Don"t curse your present circumstances... or gripe about the past. When we encounter "negative" or stressful


situations in our lives, our immediate reaction is to be
outraged, frustrated or depressed. This is the start of

a
downward spiral in which we fill our minds with gloomy


thoughts and generate more negative results.


On the contrary, when you believe there"s a purpose for your difficulties, your state of mind is quite different.

You

realize that your current situation is serving you in some
way, whether it"s a turn in the road or a lesson that you
can apply at a later date.


2. This principle is not limited to tragedies and problems.
While it"s true that you can find positive aspects to every
setback, the idea that everything happens for a reason
applies to positive experiences and "neutral" events as
well.


For instance, let"s say that you meet someone at a
networking meeting. The person holds no special significance to you and doesn"t seem likely to bring you any business. What you"re not considering are the possible ways that the two of you might help each other in the future.


3. Being passive is not the answer. Just because there is

a
"reason" for the events that happen to you doesn"t mean you can achieve your goals by sitting back and waiting for
success to occur on its own. It"s still up to you to be
proactive and make things happen. That requires energy,
creativity and, yes, a lot of effort on your part!


4. Recognize the "two way street." It"s easy to get caught
up with the idea that every person you meet has something to contribute to you. That"s true to some

extent. But, don"t
overlook the fact that there is something for you to impart
to others as well!


And, while there are often ways in which each party
contributes to the other, there are many instances where
it"s not an equal "give and take." Thus, there are times in
a relationship when you may be serving another person more often than you are receiving from them.


5. You are always being directed toward something "better." Have you ever been fired from a job ... then moved on to find a better career? Or, have you terminated a personal relationship (or been terminated yourself!) ... and then met someone who was a far better partner for you?


In both of these instances, life was pushing you toward
something that would bring you even more satisfaction.

Of
course, in all of these situations, you had the option to
close off the improved alternative.


For instance, after being fired, you could have complained

about the lack of job opportunities. Or, after the
relationship ended, you could have concluded that you are
"unlucky in love." Yet, had you taken these approaches, you would have missed the better situation that was just around the corner.


6. You"ll never be able to explain everything. The notion
that "everything happens for a reason" will not answer every question that you have about life! On the contrary, although you"ll find that you are better able to understand certain events, there will still be many mysteries that you can"t explain.


There are no coincidences. When you believe this, you"ll
enter a new world of possibility. When a problem occurs,
instead of crying, "Why Me?" you"ll look for the lesson you can learn, or the opportunity that is on the horizon.


You"ll realize that it makes no sense to argue that
something shouldn"t have happened to you. It did happen... there"s a reason for it... and, if you"re wise, you"ll use it to your advantage!

 

باید بروم در خلوت سرخ

تا بتوانم  ترانه ی آگاهی بخوانم

و خدا است تنها پناهم

خلوت، تولد حقیقتم خواهد شد

 

چهارشنبه 13/9/1387 - 18:45 - 0 تشکر 75178

“People form habits, and Habits form FUTURES.”

-Mike Litman

Hey dear user,

I want to talk about the most overlooked things that help you create your SUCCESS.

These things are called HABITS!!!

That’s right. You might not realize it but habits will help you determine what kind of a person you are going to be in the future.

How to IDENTIFY Bad Habits. 

First of all, BE AWARE of the HABITS that are NOT working for you. Many of our habits are invisible. You might be aware of some but they are better noted by other people.

Let’s look more closely at the habits that are holding you back. You might be aware of some of them right away.

  • Handling the mail more than once.
  • Not following through on time as promised.
  • Having a fast-food meals program Monday to Friday.
  • Hitting the snooze alarm several times before getting out of bed.
  • Forgetting someone’s name sixty second (or less) after being introduced.
  • Procrastinating on everything from filing taxes to cleaning out your garage.
  • And many more…

Now check yourself out by making a list of all the habits that hold you back. Take an hour or so uninterrupted to think clearly, so plan that hour ahead of time.

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