با سلام
این هم از متن مكالمه جلسه شنبه شب این هفته با حضور كابران
Botanist,
Endless_road (as
the manager) &
Roo_be_Aseman
Manager (Endless_road): hi friends
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Hi everybody, good night
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: hello to you
Roo_be_Aseman: how are you?
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Manager (Endless_road): fine, thanks
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Fine, Thank God
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: thank God
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): we are going to start
this session
Manager (Endless_road): what is happiness?
Manager (Endless_road): who wants to start?
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: I"d like to listen at first.
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Botanist: I"d like too!
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): dear botany?
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Manager (Endless_road): wow
Manager (Endless_road): i start
Manager (Endless_road): according to what i
read people & things aren"t the key to happiness
Manager (Endless_road): i think it happens to
all of us than when we do some thing after a short time we feeling come back to
their normal level
Manager (Endless_road): our*
Manager (Endless_road): feelings*
Manager (Endless_road): and also we are good
at describing our feelings
Manager (Endless_road): what we aren"t good
at ispredictingwhat our feelings will be like in the future
Manager (Endless_road): & how long we will
ahve those feelings
Roo_be_Aseman:
Manager (Endless_road): have*
Manager (Endless_road): it"s because certain
brain chemicals
Roo_be_Aseman:
Manager (Endless_road): after we have had an
experience these chemicals are produced
Manager (Endless_road): but the specific
chemicals connected to the experience fade soon
Manager (Endless_road): it happens even when
we have a bad experience
Manager (Endless_road): brain interfere to
reduce its impact
Roo_be_Aseman:
Manager (Endless_road): its said that people
& things & even relationships arn"t the key to happiness
Manager (Endless_road): it is the process of
experiencing & adapting to things that brings us joy
Manager (Endless_road): over
Manager (Endless_road): ok dear friends
Botanist: Thanks
Manager (Endless_road): any question?
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Yeah, i have
Botanist: let me
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: thank you
Roo_be_Aseman: very nice
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): you"r welcome
Manager (Endless_road): go ahead dear botany
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: What do you mean by" what we
aren"t good at ispredictingwhat our feelings will be like in the future" ?
Botanist: over!
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Manager (Endless_road): when we have a
feeling for example good feeling
Manager (Endless_road): we can"t foretell
what willhappens to our feelings in the future
Manager (Endless_road): will we have it?
Manager (Endless_road): or will it reduce?
Manager (Endless_road): will it change?
Manager (Endless_road): i hope i could
elaborate it for you
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: I"m sorry, I should think more!
Botanist: anyway, thank you
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: I have another question
Manager (Endless_road): ok let me give you
some more details maybe you get
Roo_be_Aseman: ok, please
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): please one moment
Botanist: No dear, Feel free
Botanist: I will ask you later
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Manager (Endless_road): your wish
Manager (Endless_road): dear roo be aseman
Manager (Endless_road): go ahead
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: ok
Roo_be_Aseman: according to what I understood
Roo_be_Aseman: you told that none of the
things or even people are not the key to happiness
Roo_be_Aseman: and also you told our good
feelings are not perpetual because of some chemicals in our bodies
Roo_be_Aseman: but finally what is key to
happiness, I mean perpetual happiness?
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Botanist: Yeah, it"s my question too.
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): the process of doing
something
Manager (Endless_road): do you ever feel it?
Manager (Endless_road): for example when i am
going to buy something
Manager (Endless_road): while i m going to do
it i m happeir than when it is bought
Manager (Endless_road): it was my question
which i found its answer
Manager (Endless_road): could you get it
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: yeah, I got it
Roo_be_Aseman: I think that
Roo_be_Aseman: you mean
Roo_be_Aseman: when we love waht we are doing
we are happy
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): to some extent
Botanist: My mind went blank
Manager (Endless_road): but you know even
when you hate something & you are forced to do it
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): after a while you get
use to it
Manager (Endless_road): & you are happy
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Yes
Botanist: But
Botanist: What is the key?!
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): the procees of
experiencing & adapting to them
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Oh!!!
Botanist: Oh!!!
Botanist: I got it now
Botanist: Thanks
Botanist: Thanks
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): thansk allah<:-P
Manager (Endless_road): dear roo be aseman
Manager (Endless_road): do you any question?
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: I think you mean, Success is
the journey not the destination.
Roo_be_Aseman: am I right?
Manager (Endless_road): have*
Manager (Endless_road): yeah
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: so,
Roo_be_Aseman: how can we enjony of doing
something that we hate?
Roo_be_Aseman: do you know?
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): i told you
Manager (Endless_road): when you are forced
to do some thing which you hate
Manager (Endless_road): after a while you get
used to it
Manager (Endless_road): finally not only dont
you hate but also you like it
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist:
Manager (Endless_road):
Roo_be_Aseman: very nice structure
Roo_be_Aseman: thank you
Manager (Endless_road): could i answer your
question?
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): thanks
Manager (Endless_road): over
Manager (Endless_road): ok
Manager (Endless_road): who wants to continue?
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: Me
Botanist: Can I?
Manager (Endless_road): ok dear go ahead
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: In my opinion there are several
factors to experience happiness
Botanist: first of all, being optimistic and
pursuing our dreams
Botanist: Then
Botanist: Being content with what we have can
make us happy
Botanist: In my point of view we must learn
ability to overcome our problems
Botanist: And
Botanist: finally, Anything can make you
happy if it happens at the right time.
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): any questions?
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: would you please expalin more
the last factor?
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Botanist: Yeah
Botanist: Maybe you had this experience when
you were busy with problems and works
Botanist: I mean you need to choose the best
at that time
Roo_be_Aseman:
Botanist: for example
Botanist: It"s time to say praying
Botanist: and you are forced to do something
else simultaneously
Botanist: What should you do at that time?
Botanist: Everything should be done at the
right time.
Botanist: it was just an example and depends
to you
Botanist: got it?
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: yeah
Roo_be_Aseman: thank you
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Botanist: you are welcome
Manager (Endless_road): ok dear roo be aseman
it"s your turn
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): over
Roo_be_Aseman: ok
Roo_be_Aseman: unfortunately these days we
could not see happiness on the people"s faces
Roo_be_Aseman: you know everybody has his/her
own problems
Roo_be_Aseman: when a person talks about
happiness they laugh at him/her
Roo_be_Aseman: but do you know why?
Roo_be_Aseman: in my opinion
Roo_be_Aseman: the problem comes back to our
beliefs
Roo_be_Aseman: comes back to our vision
Roo_be_Aseman: we should know that we are
here on this wold to be happy and make others happy
Roo_be_Aseman: eveen we have some problems
Roo_be_Aseman: even*
Roo_be_Aseman: even if*
Roo_be_Aseman: finally
Roo_be_Aseman: in my idea the right happiness
comes back to our relation with God
Roo_be_Aseman: as God says in Quran
Roo_be_Aseman: Verily in rememberance of God
do hearts find rest
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): thanks dear your are
right
Botanist: Yeah, I do agree
Botanist: Thanks, over
Roo_be_Aseman: You"re welcome :)
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Manager (Endless_road): they may laugh at us
when we say it but it"s a common belief that happiness is essential for people
Manager (Endless_road): over
Manager (Endless_road): time is over
Botanist: Thank you dear Manager
Manager (Endless_road): thanks you for
attending in this session
Manager (Endless_road): over
Botanist: over
Roo_be_Aseman: thank you too for a great
management
Roo_be_Aseman: over
Botanist: Yeah
Botanist: Your management was so great
Botanist: I enjoyed
Botanist: over
Manager (Endless_road): ohh!!you"r welcome
Manager (Endless_road): i m really sorry if i
can"t explain very well
Manager (Endless_road): over
